C/O 10 Colonsay
Hemel Hempsted
Herts
HP3 8TZ
United Kingdom

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Charlie H's Parents/Guardians

Emma

Charlie H's Siblings

Olliver 14/01/2000 Anything boyish, Star Wars, Lego, plays Nintendo Wii and XBox, reading Horrid Henry books, and all the latest fads like collecting Pokemon cards or what ever is in fashion at that particular moment! Also likes wrestling, making models, drawing, listening to the latest pop music and Arsenal FC!

Charlie H's Interests

Drawing, making things, looking at comics, Fireman Sam, Bob the Builder, Tom and Jerry, Mickey Mouse, Scooby Doo, Toy Story, Ben 10, Lazy Town, Lego, WWE wrestling, Playing on the DS and going to the park.

Charlie H's Favourite Colour

Blue

Is Charlie H able to read?

No

Is Charlie H able to use hands?

Yes

Is Charlie H visually/hearing impaired?

No

Does Charlie H suffer from any developmental delay?

No

Story written 2008

Charlie was unwell when he was born with breathing difficulties and was put on CPAP to help him, although doctors could find no reason for this. After 2 weeks he was allowed home but had trouble putting on weight. He was always wheezy and was given a reliever inhaler. At 3 months he developed a chest infection; from then on he had one roughly every month and was in and out of hospital. It wasn't until the following January that he was referred to the respiratory specialist at his local hospital. On Charlie’s first appointment he had lots of tests and a chest X-ray taken. He was immediately put on steroids and given a steroid inhaler along with antibiotics and vitamins and referred to another hospital - the Royal Brompton in London.

Charlie has continued to be unwell and in current months he has been particularly unwell after developing pneumonia. He has grown a lot of bugs on cough swabs, pseudo, influenza, and strep to name a few.

Charlie has a lowered immune system and needs some help to digest his food properly as he has a very acidic tummy. All tests Charlie has had have been inconclusive and not shown any one particular illness. However, he is now being treated as if he has Cystic Fibrosis as this seems to be the best way of managing him. In any one day Charlie takes 2 types of antibiotic, 3 different liquid medicines (one being vitamins and the others to help him digest his food), a power, steroids and 3 inhalers.

Charlie also has to have chest physio twice a day to help him move the thick secretions that are in his lungs. When he is suffering from an infection, this is increased to three times a day. He currently attends 3 different hospitals at least once every 4 weeks and he also sees a physio ENT specialist and has his own community nurse.

Despite all this, he is a very happy boy who when is well enough attends a pre-school and just loves having fun.

Update 21st July 2010

Hi everyone, I wanted to say a massive thank you first of all for all the post Charlie has received, it has been astounding and we are so so grateful for it. Thanks also for all the emails as he's loved getting those to. Charlie has also had lots of Toy Story related post and he is absolutely mad on Toy Story so he has been in his element. Again, thank you. Charlie received a summer package which was crammed full of lots of exciting items, he especially loved the tomato plant and can’t wait for that to grow. Thank you very much.

Charlie has had quite a good few months. Thank goodness for the better weather as this always brings an improvement to his health. He's still on the daily cocktail of meds and the plasma infusions but they all seem to be doing the trick in keeping him as healthy as possible. Charlie’s infusion has increased so it now takes around 6 hours to infuse which I’m sure you can imagine is very boring for him, but he manages very well and makes me very very proud.

Charlie will be starting school in September and we have thankfully managed to secure 5 hours one to one funding for him per day, so that will ensure he has continuity of who gives him his physio and meds at school, as well as helping him with his work and making sure he doesn't get to worn out (which will in turn have a detrimental effect on his health). The worrying news is that there is a child in the class with CF and due to the bugs they will both grow this could prove to be somewhat of a problem. The consultant said thankfully it’s not a situation they come across often but when it does it needs to be handled carefully. The specialist CF nurse from the Royal Brompton will be going into the school to inform them of the importance of keeping the two children separated. Hopefully this will make things as manageable as possible and the school have been fantastic from the start which has been a big bonus.

Olliver has been confirmed as having an immune system which isn’t as it should be, he has been put on daily antibiotics to try and help prevent infections. His immunity appears to be gradually falling so although not as severe as Charlie’s condition, they think he will end up on replacement therapy and this will be decided by his infection burden. He has also been suffering quite a lot with his hypermobility syndrome and inflammatory bowel disorder, so he’s not feeling his best at the moment and unfortunately I seem to be bearing the brunt of it! It must be very frustrating for him as he’s an active boy who just wants to be like his friends. I asked his consultant to speak with him on the importance of taking all his meds as his cooperation in taking them has been poor for a few months - she did and it has appeared to help, so fingers crossed it will continue.

Anyway, I think that’s about it for now. Thanks again for all the post and I’m very sorry we can’t reply to everyone but please know it is very much appreciated.

Update 6th May 2010

Sorry for not updating for a while. Charlie has been keeping much better of late. He's not had an infection requiring IV antibiotics since December which is such great news for us. He still attends every few weeks for his plasma and bloods etc but all in all has been much better.

He's got to have more grommets fitted so we are waiting for a date for that as his left ear is causing a few problems because it keeps getting infected causing the drum to burst then fill with yucky stuff. So it’s not nice for him but the good news is his recent one was managed with strong oral antibiotics so we were really pleased about that. 

He didn’t get into the primary school which we thought would best meet his needs but was given the second school on the list. Lots of people have advised me to appeal etc but to be honest I am going to go visit the school and meet the head teacher and see what to do from there, as if at all possible I would really like to avoid appealing as things are hectic enough as it is. If the school he has been given cannot meet his needs then of course we will go down the appeal route.

Everything has been going well with Charlie’s port-a-cath and it has helped a lot with his regular bloods and infusions, although his needle phobia is worse than ever. Charlie is having very intensive help from a psychologist and play specialist for this as it really is horrendous to watch. So all in all, Charlie is doing very well. 

Olliver has been a different story. He’s still having lots of tests for his immune system and at the moment is neutropenic so is being monitored closely as we still don’t really know what’s going on with him. It seems that his immune system has been slowly declining but as yet we don’t have a name for it. He is on prophylactic antibiotics and various other meds to help, but currently has a heavy cold he can’t seem to shift and it is all really getting him down. He has also been diagnosed as having hyper-mobility syndrome for which he has been having regular physio and pain killers and has been referred to a podiatrist as he needs insoles for his shoes to support his feet and ankles.

Whilst all this has been going on, I’ve been hoping to go back to work part time in September, but really don’t know if this will be possible or realistic. I feel I really need to do something for me and would really like to go back, so fingers crossed it works out.

I think that’s just about all of our news at the moment and I will update more regularly from now on. 

I want to say a massive thank you for all the post, gifts, and emails that the boys have received. It has been amazing and they are so grateful - as am I - for the big smiles it puts on their faces. I think it’s lovely that people do this for them, so again, thank you to every single person who has sent or emailed something.

Update 19th January 2010

Happy new year to everyone and hope everyone had a nice Christmas. 

Charlie had his port-a-cath fitted without too many problems. He ended up staying in for a week for two different i.v antibiotics as he has a rattly chest and an ear infection. His ear was full of muck and a little bit of blood. He got over it well and we came home Christmas week ready to prepare for the festivities! 

One of the antibiotics he was given whilst in surgery should have been given as an infusion over an hour, but instead it was mistakenly pushed through his cannula, so that caused a bit of worry as he then had to have a lot of i.v fluids to dilute it, but luckily he was fine. It's quite a potent antibiotic and can cause deafness and kidney problems in some children if not given correctly, but as I say, he was fine. He also had his first plasma infusion through his new port and it all went very well although it had been accessed during surgery so he didn't actually know he had to have a needle in it. When we went for his infusion on the 5th of January he had an absolute melt down when he saw the needle they had to put in, he couldn't understand why he still had to have needles when he had his ‘button’ as he calls it. Once it was finally accessed and he saw it was nothing like having a cannula fitted, the look on his face was great. He was so relieved and couldn't believe how easy it was and so was I because the last few months have been terrible when it came to getting cannulas fitted.

We had some bad news about Olliver - he had some tests on his immune system due to various issues. Whilst Charlie was in hospital, the immunologist came to see me and she told me that Olliver’s immune system is like Charlie’s and not functioning correctly and his bone marrow isn't working as it should. I was quite shocked, as although my instincts told me something wasn't right with him, it's another thing to have it confirmed. We're not exactly sure yet what type of immune disorder he has and they’re not even sure if it is the same as Charlie’s, because at the time we were still waiting for more blood results, so we have an appointment on the 10th February to see what the next step is. I told Olliver and he was very upset as he has seen everything Charlie goes through and being much older means he understands much more than Charlie does. I think I reassured him in as much as at least he has an answer now as to why he has the problems he has with his joints stomach etc and that we don’t yet know what treatment he'll need. The doctor told me it may be possible to try him on long term antibiotics and see how that works for him before escalating to plasma etc. He is feeling a bit down in the dumps at the moment and I’m sure he would be very grateful for a few smiles if anyone could spare the time. He's a very private boy so it's hard to know what he's thinking sometimes.

I wanted to say thank you very much for all the presents, cards, and letters that the boys got over Christmas and also for Olliver’s birthday. They really loved them all. Charlie opened some whilst he was in hospital and they really cheered him up and Ollie opened some after his news and that really helped too. It really does make them smile and Olliver (being a bit older) thinks it is so kind of people that they don’t even know to do that for them, as do I. So again, thank you very very much. Amongst other things, Charlie was sent a Wall-e laptop and hasn’t been off it since - there was no note or anything with it so whoever sent it, thank you very much! Thank you also to all our regulars!! The only thing is… Charlie thinks all post is his now!!

Update 4th December 2009

Things have been quite hectic here as Charlie has been growing some nasty bugs in his lungs again, namely staph and cepecia, and he was quite poorly with them. I am currently waiting on cough swab results taken on Tuesday to see if anything else is going on down there as he has been coughing a lot again.

Both boys have had there normal and swine flu jabs and were fine with it, other than Olliver having a slightly sore arm. We don’t know how successful Charlie’s will be as he doesn’t produce antibody responses, but even a tiny bit of protection is better than none. 

Charlie’s going in on the 14th of this month to have his port-a-cath fitted so please keep your fingers crossed that goes well with no infections etc. He will also be having some i.v antibiotics through it.

Thanks to everyone who has sent the boys post as they really love it. I will send a proper update soon but he has a sore ear at present and just wants to sit with me. I will let you know how everything goes with the port etc and thanks again to everyone who takes the time to send the boys mail.

Update 21st October 2009

Charlie came out of hospital again yesterday as he had to go in due to another chest infection which hadn’t properly cleared up from the last one three weeks ago. He's also been growing nasty bugs on cough swabs so isn’t really having a very good time at the moment. We have decided that he is to have a port-a-cath fitted as he’s had so many lines put in his veins are now very bad.

I want to say thanks to everyone for Charlie’s birthday cards and presents as he loved them all. Also, thank you for the parcels both boys received with all the books, sweets, and crafty things in. They we're so chuffed with them.

Update 1st October 2009

Charlie hasn't been too bad lately although he has just finished some i.v. antibiotics for a chest infection and bug he was growing. He also keeps getting reduced air entry in his left lung so is currently having to have physio three times a day to help prevent this.

He went back to school in September and didn't cope too well as all his friends have moved up, but as he's been kept back a year it threw him as he didn't really know anyone. He's getting on well now though and is getting used to all the changes slowly. He now has an IEP at school so he's working toward the goals on that and we're busy trying to get all the evidence together to support his need for a statement. Charlie also has 5 hours one 2 one support at school to help him with his targets etc but we are hoping for more once his statement has been sorted. 

He is also going to be taking melatonin to help with his sleeping habits, he's a very disturbed sleeper and this in turn affects his behaviour so we're hoping these help.

Olliver has not been too well lately and is currently waiting for an endoscopy. He’s always had a lot of stomach trouble and is already on medication but his consultant thinks there is something else going on, possibly some kind of inflammatory disorder and juvenile arthritis has also been mentioned, and they also think that this could be related to his stomach. He's currently taking co-codamol every six hours which concerns me slightly but this is the only thing that seems to help the pain a little and his consultant has prescribed these so i guess it must be ok. The sooner the endoscopy gets done and they sort him out the better as he's had a bad year health wise this year too.

Thank you to everyone who has sent the boys post as they love it. Charlie’s had post from Cuba, Spain and America, so thank you very much for that and for all the other cards letters emails and pictures. They really are very much appreciated and do put a big smile on their faces.

Update 8th July 2009

Good news to report! Charlie has been infection free and out of hospital (other than going for the usual plasma and appointments) for six weeks. That is very good news. He has been doing well lately.

We've just got back from a break in a Haven Park and we've all had a really lovely time. Even Olliver seemed to relax and enjoy himself and Charlie and him got on really well - he was very patient with Charlie and they even shared the same room. Charlie wanted to sleep in Olliver’s room tonight, but things were soon back to normal and the arguing had begun after about half an hour of being home!

Charlie is still having the many assessments relating to his development, education and behaviour etc. I never realised it was such a long and drawn out process, but hopefully at the end we'll have the right diagnosis and help for him. His IEP'S are already in place and his school have been great. He will be having a statement of special educational needs so they are busy gathering all the evidence for that, as it is obvious he works much better on a one to one level. This is because his concentration is much better like this, as opposed to in a large group where you never get his attention in the first place, never mind sustain it.

More good news is that we have been given 15 hours a month respite care for Charlie. This will enable me to spend some quality time with Ollie and catch up on bits that need to be done. I can also have a rest as Charlie can be very hard work sometimes. I wouldn’t change him for anything though!

I wanted to say thank you to everyone who has sent the boys things this month as they were really chuffed. I keep meaning to write down everything they get to say thank you to everyone but I never quite get round to it. Please know though that we really appreciate it and they are so grateful for everything they receive. Also, thank you for the kind letters that I’ve received as well; they have really helped lately as everything has seemed a real struggle, so thank you very much. Once again, thank you very much for all the letters, cards, emails and gifts we have received.   

Update 3rd June 2009

Things have been pretty hectic the last few months. We've had so many assesments, appointments, and reviews, that my head has been spinning with all the information i've been getting! 

Charlie’s had a couple more hospital admissions for infections where he's been in for 4 days or so for i.v antibiotics as is his protocol, but touch wood he's got over it all well. He was also at the Royal Brompton a few weeks ago where they reviewed his recent CT scan etc and they have increased his chest physio to 3 times a day as they said there is much more muccas lying down there now and if it's not shiffted then obviously it can lead to infection. He's going to be trying a new device with his physio alled a PEP mask. I'm not really sure what it is but i think the idea is it keeps the airways open longer so it is easier for him to cough up the sputem. It will also allow him to be slightly independent from me and is something new to try and encourage him. It will also be portable so we can take it where ever we go and then if we're out for the day he can use that and i'd do the hands on physio later when we got home.

We've also discovered that Charlie has a delay of around 18 months to 2 years with his learning and some of his understanding. It came as quite a shock as i really didn’t think he was that delayed at all. I've been told though that with the right help and support he will easily reach his full potential. We are still waiting for a diagnoses of his behaviour etc and it seems to be really dragging on. ADHD, autism, and global delay, have all been mentioned but we have got nothing in concrete yet. I'm keen to hurry it along as i think once we know exactly what we're dealing with it can be managed in the right way so that charlie is getting the help and support he needs. He was going to be at school in September but we've all decided it's best for him to stay at pre school for another year whilst everything is being sorted out and all the evidence is being gathered for a statement, so that come September 2010 everything will be ready for him to start. 

Olliver's been having a hard time lately trying to deal with everything that has been going on and deal with Charlie etc so i'm hopeful that Charlie’s respite care will be sorted soon so that i can spend some one to one time with Ollie, which i really think we need. He deals with everything so well and i'm so proud of him, but i do feel he misses out sometimes as unfortanatly Charlie’s illness, behaviour etc, all have to be the main focus most of the time. It makes me feel so guilty but it's just the way things are at the momment.

One of Charlie’s inhalers has been changed and it seems to be helping with his breathlessness so thats good. Also, he keeps getting reduced air entry in his lungs so that is the reason his physio has been increased to hopefully help prevent the blockages in his lungs that the thick mucas is causing. We had an assessment from Social Services disabled children’s team and they have advised 14 hours a month respite and 5 hours a week domestic help, but it has been passed to the complex care team panel and they hold the purse strings, so we'll see what happens. His social worker is hopeful, so fingers crossed. 

Things seem to be going smoother with his infusions now. He dosen’t seem to be vomiting every time he has the plasma now so that’s a step forward. We had quite a scare a few weeks ago as he went to school in the morning and he was fine, but then i had a phone call asking if i could go and collect him as he was crying a lot and saying he was sad. When i arrived he looked terrible, he was a grey colour, his eyes were rolling and he was vomiting, but trying to sleep as well. They were just about to phone an ambulance when i arrived. I asked to take him home and see how he went which thinking now was stupid. Anyway i got him home and he was just terrible. He was absolutely exhausted and floppy so we got him to hospital and they put a cannula in etc and it turned out he'd got another infection. His blood sugar was low and when he was vomiting violently he was unable to get enough air in his lungs, combined with the problems he already had it all made him pass out. That’s Charlie though - he never does anything by halves, bless him!

He seems well at the moment so i’m hoping it will last a while as we're going to a Haven site at the end of June for a well deserved break for us all. Both boys are so excited as they absolutely love Haven and Charlie thinks the caravans we stay in are actually his. He's always asking to go to his caravan!

I just wanted to say thank you for all the cards and gifts Charlie has had lately. You wouldnt believe how much they cheer him up. Thank you for the books both boys were sent and Charlie also received a parcel from a grandma in Spain, so thank you so much for that - he loved it as it was full of his favourite things. They've also had postcards and lovely hand made cards, so thank you to absolutely everyone who has sent them things, it is very much appreciated. I have also received some lovely letters, it is so kind of people to go out of their way and do that. It's one thing to do it for the kids but it was so nice for me to think these people are actually thinking about all of us. So, once again, thank you very much.

Update 31st March 2009

Charlie hasn’t had a great month as he has been in hospital again with another chest infection and was again put on iv antibiotics. He had an appointment with his immunologist and they have decided to increase the immunoglobulin infusions to see if this helps as he seems to be developing an infection the week before an infusion is due. 

We have had lots of meetings regarding Charlie and his problems and we finally seem to be getting some help with things. We have a social worker from the disabled children’s team coming to visit us and talk about respite care and we have lots of support from Charlie’s consultant community nurse, so fingers crossed it will be a simple process. 

We are also waiting for an appointment with another doctor for Charlie’s behaviour and hopefully some help with that. 

Thank you very much for the Mother’s Day wish i received this month. It was very kind and cheered me up, especially as we were in hospital for Mother’s Day due to Charlie’s infection.

Update 15th March 2009

Charlie's not had too bad a month. He had his tonsils out in February and all seemed to be going well, until a week later when he got a nasty infection. He was admitted back into hospital and put on two different i.v antibiotics for three days which seemed to do the trick. He then had his plasma infusion a week later where they checked his throat again and said it wasn’t healing as quickly as normal, but it wasn’t totally unexpected as he does have an immune deficiency and his body obviously doesn’t heal as quickly.

Charlie’s behaviour has again gone down hill. We have an appointment with the community paed coming up as his consultant and school think it is very likely he has ADHD and that the sooner we can get some help with it the better.

He is also being assessed for respite care at the request of his consultant as well, who says he does qualify, so we are waiting to see what the social worker from the disabled children’s team. I would be a bit nervous about him having respite but think it will do Olliver and i good in the long run, as it will enable me to spend more time with him as i think he has been feeling left out lately. 

Charlie is also going to be having much more support at pre school now and has been put on an individual education plan amongst other things, so fingers crossed all the support he is getting will help him. 

Thanks again to everyone who sends post as the boys love it. Thank you to every one who sent the boys Valentines cards too, they were all very much appreciated.

Update 2nd February 2009

Happy New Year to everyone and sorry for the delay in the update, things have been quite hectic. 

Charlie finally started his plasma infusions just before Christmas. We got there for his first infusion at the beginning of December and whilst i was talking with his consultant and signing the consent forms etc Charlie was having his observations etc done by the nurses. He had a high temperature which i initially thought was just due to the fact he'd been running around playing, but within a short time he became quite unwell with a rising temperature and was very dehydrated. This really surprised me as when we left home, apart from being a bit tired, he seemed fine and certainly didn’t seem dehydrated as he was eating and drinking normally. They put a cannula in for fluids then sent him down for a chest x-ray which showed another infection at the base of the left lung. He was started on gentamycin and cefuroxine I.V antibiotics and continued to look unwell with a temperature for a good few days, after which he seemed to improve nicely and we were home in about a week. So his plasma infusion was rebooked for 2 weeks later. He had this one fine without any hitches and not too many side effects, so that was all good. He then had his longest run of good health in 3 years and didn’t have another infection until last week when he got tonsillitis and a urine infection. He was treated with strong antibiotics for 10 days and improved nicely which i was thrilled about. He has had a few episodes of sickness and stomach upsets but we have been able to deal with these at home and he has got better quickly.

Unfortunately, his brother had pneumonia all over Christmas and was quite poorly. Olliver has lung damage caused through his lungs collapsing when he was a baby and he also has a blocked valve in his heart. These haven’t caused any problems for around 2 years, although he still takes all his meds etc. Anyway, this pneumonia has exacerbated it all and he is still not back at school. He is a lot better though and hopefully will be back at school tomorrow depending on the snow!

Charlie is due to have his tonsils out and grommets put in on Thursday, but due to his illness has to have 24 hours I.V antibiotics before hand and obviously cannot go in as a day case. That is the usual practice here but there doesn’t seem to be much communication between St Mary’s hospital and our local one where he has shared care, so I’m waiting for them to call me today and let me know what’s happening.

The other thing that’s happened is that Charlie is being assessed for a statement of special educational needs. His behaviour has become hard work and he has had a lot of time off due to all the illnesses he’s had. When I took him to nursery on Thursday she said she has informed SENCO and with my agreement they will come and assess him. She thinks he needs one to one whilst in school and that this will make things easier for them and him. So fingers crossed he will get the funding for this. I have spoken to his consultant about it and she thinks it’s a good idea. She also said a lot of names will get mentioned like autism and ADHD but to just wait and see what his final diagnosis with regards to that is. She said she can’t stop me worrying but I should see it as a good thing as there are a lot of children who need help but who can’t get it.

We have quite a busy month coming up with more infusions, his operation, assessments, and half term, so we'll see how that all goes. Now I think it’s about time we go and build a snowman and enjoy the snow for a while!

I just want to say a massive thank you to everyone who sent the boys post, presents and everything else over Christmas, it was so much appreciated and they loved every single thing they received. Thank you very much to all the elves and reindeers, it means a lot and the smiles are priceless. Thank you also to Kate Dee who always sends the boys something and to Wendy as well. Thank you very much. As Olliver says, ‘Post Pals is way cool!!’

Update 30th November 2008

Charlie has had an up and down month, he was only back at pre school a week after being off for a month and then he became unwell again and is growing another bug in his chest (moraxella catarhalis) so has not been back since, although we are hoping he can go back tomorrow. 

Things have been very confused with Charlie starting his immunoglobulin infusions as Great Ormand Street wanted to wait until February to start them but because of all the infections he has had and the state of his lungs from his most current x ray, St Mary’s are not prepared to wait and are starting them next week for definite. St Mary’s have told us that he has combined immune deficiency and they have increased his current prophylactic antibiotic and put him on another stronger one to try and build him up a bit before his first infusion. They have told us the first couple are not going to make him feel too well, as they draw out all the bugs and infection that is lurking around his body so that the antibodies he is having can fight them off, where as at the moment his body is unable to fight infection properly due to his lowered immunity. I have been told to keep him away as much as possible from people who are ill and have coughs and colds etc and also chicken pox as they can have nasty complications for him.

So we had a tour around the ward and met the nurses and his new immunologist who were all really nice. There will be a lot to do on his first infusion next week as we are going to be having a new protocol drawn up and  and i also need copies for his local community nurses and hospital. The doctors at St Mary’s also think it is possible he has some small areas of collapse in his lungs, but they will not be repeating his CT scan until they have got him as healthy as he is going to get, so that they can see the true damage to his lungs. He has been very breathless lately and has been unable to run around and do the things he normally does. He has found this very frustrating and it has made him very upset and angry and he has been lashing out a lot, although when he feels unwell his behaviour does change for the worse understandably. 

Thanks again for the post he has received as it cheers him up no end. This month he has had a couple of cards and a lovely Bob the Builder annual from Kate. Thank you also Kate for the letter and stickers for Olliver, he really liked them.

If possible please keep us in your thoughts this month and hope that the first infusion goes smoothly and he doesn’t feel too ill with it. He will have them every three weeks and so his next one is scheduled for the Monday before Christmas. It would be nice for him to really enjoy Christmas as he has put up with much more than any child should this year.

Much love to all the other Post Pals families and wishing you all a happy Christmas.

Update 1st November 2008

Charlie has had another bad month and has ended up in hospital with a severe chest infection. He had to have IV antibiotics and was on oxygen and at one point needed seven nebuliser treatments one after the other then every hour thereafter. He is now confirmed to have a primary immune deficiency and will start immunoglobulin replacement therapy this month at G.O.S.H. We are hoping that this makes a big difference to Charlie as he has now got some lung damage which includes shadows and enlarged lymph glands in his left lung by his heart. He is still very wheezy and needs 10 puffs of ventolin inhaler every three hours. He was unwell yesterday and we found out he has red enlarged tonsils and an infection in both ears, with one of his ear drums bursting due to the pressure, so he is in pain from that as well.

At the moment we are feeling very sorry for Charlie and he is feeling sorry for himself. He is very tearful and clingy but the post he has been getting is really cheering him up. Olliver has also had some post this month as well so that has cheered him up, as i think he feels pushed out at times due to all the care etc that Charlie needs. He also had to miss out on a friend’s birthday party that he was looking forward to because Charlie was in hospital and although it can’t be helped, it is still disappointing for him. 

Charlie has a few appointments this month, three of which are only a few days apart so we're in for another busy month.

Thanks again for all the kind post, it really does make such a difference, especially when the going gets tough. It's really nice to think that other people are thinking of you, so thanks again. Thank you to everyone who sent Charlie a birthday card or present, he loved it all, especially the pop party CD which he asks to have on all the time! Thank you to Post Pals for the Halloween posty as both boys really loved it and Olliver was really pleased to get some post.

Update 11th October 2008

Charlie’s not doing to well at the moment, he has a right sided lung infection and he is to start plasma infusions at Great Ormand Street to try and improve his immune system. We are not sure when this will start though as it was only decided on Thursday.

Update 29th September 2008

Charlie hasn’t had a great month. He was in hospital again suffering from another chest infection so has been on different antibiotics called cipro and prednisilone steroids. He had a couple of cough swabs taken which didn’t really show anything up apart from a heavy growth of candida in his mouth, due to all the medication he takes. He has been off his food and drink so got slightly dehydrated which meant he needed to take a special drink with extra salt and things in.

Just before he was diagnosed with another infection, his behaviour at pre school really changed. He started to become very aggressive and was crying a lot which is very unlike him and even his play leader said that. It has now improved and gone back to normal so we think it must have been because he felt poorly, which is a relief. He still has a bit of a wet cough but nothing like it was and he is much less tired now so he is definitely getting better. He has another week of cipro then back onto his normal prophylactic antibiotic augmentin. He went back to pre school today and loved it - he gave out his birthday party invites, so was very proud of himself for that! He has a busy October ahead as he is due to be seen at St. Mary’s hospital on the 9^th, then the 10th is his birthday, on the 11th he and his brother have their flu jabs and on the 12th it is his birthday party! Fingers crossed he carries on improving and gets over this infection and has a long break before the next one!

Thank you very much to everyone who has sent post to Charlie, it really brightens him up. Also, thank you very much to Post Pals for the Thorpe Park tickets, we are hoping to go next week and have lots of fun. Thank you to Helen for the bob book; hope your wrist is better. To Maddy and Holly for the cards and for the Buzz Lightyear book and the sweets for Oliver - they loved them thank you.

Update 30th August 2008

Charlie was at clinic a few weeks ago and unfortunately has been referred to another London hospital as he is having a few problems with his immune system despite all the treatment he is on, so they now need to find out if there is a separate problem relating to this, or if it's all to do with the one illness. We should hear from them soon. 

He seems quite well at the moment, although the last couple of days he has been sneezing and coughing a bit, but fingers crossed it won’t come to much. We have been advised he should have his tonsils out, his nose cauterized, and grommets put in, so we have a lot of hospital visits coming up but as yet have no dates for anything.

Fingers crossed for a good month health wise in September and thanks again for all the cards letters and gifts people have sent Charlie. They are all very much appreciated and he loves receiving it – he gets so excited every time he hears the postman.